Catholic Family Life - Para Counselling Services

If you or someone you love needs to talk, Catholic Family Life – Pro-Bono Counselling offers free counselling by trained volunteers.  Face-to-Face counselling sessions at the Church of the Holy Cross are held on Wednesdays.

To book your session, you may:

Call:    66318963 (Mon – Fri 12pm to 4pm) or

Email: pbc@familylife.sg or

Visit:   https://www.familylife.sg/PBC_Homepage

 

Who We Are

Founded in 2006, we are an organisation of over 50 professionally trained counsellors and hotline staff who donate our time to support our community. We provide pro-bono counselling and hotline support to anyone in need.

We support everyone regardless of faith, marital status or sexuality. We focus on providing a safe, supportive environment for our clients.

Our Vision

To be a community grounded in faith, uplifting each other, proficient in counselling, bring hope and healing to families, couples and individuals facing life's challenges.

Our Services

  1. Online Counselling: We host our counselling sessions through ZOOM.
  2. Face-to-Face Counselling: We provide face-to-face sessions through our service locations.

     

Church of the Holy Cross has subscribed to FORMED, an online service for accessing thousands of Catholic videos, audios and ebooks On Demand anytime, anywhere.

All parishioners will have free access to entertaining movies, inspiring audio talks, informative bible studies, and much more.

Click on the link https://holycrosssg.formed.org and sign-up for access to FORMED.

A one-hour prayer and reflection service. It is an opportunity for the community to come together to pray, to worship, and to adore the Lord in the presence of the Eucharist. This service is held on the first Friday of each month.

All are welcome...

Examination of Conscience

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In order to prepare yourself to celebrate well the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and to have a greater understanding of this important sacrament, please take a little time reflecting the following: 
 

You have come to experience the Lord's forgiveness and compassion. It is a very personal moment in your relationship with God.

To get the most from your confessional-encounter with Christ, you should prepare well. You should arouse in yourself a deep, true sorrow for your sins, how they have offended against God who loves us infinitely, and how they have hurt our fellow men who so need our help. You should not try to ferret out each and every sin - serious attitudes of sin will usually come to mind immediately, nor should you waste time in useless regrets. 

Please remember that the Sacrament of Reconciliation is above all an act of God's love, it is a personal moment to be lived in a relationship of love with God. It is not a routine (or an ordeal) to be gone through, but very much part of the personal renewal which takes place in each person.

You are invited in the light of God's love

  • to recognize the sinfulness in your life...
  • to have a true sorrow for these sins...
  • and a firm intention to avoid them in the future.

These elements are essential to a proper and meaningful celebration of The Sacrament.  Sin is not merely a series of failures. It is also your sharing in what is actually evil:

  • unbelief, indifference, selfishness,
  • violence, contempt for the weak, eroticism,
  • racism, neglect of the poor,
  • money seeking, wastefulness,
  • a spirit of pride and superiority.

Every sin, in one way or another, has a community dimension. It is something which tarnishes the Body of Christ, which together, we are. Every sin ought to arouse in us feelings of humble regret and a confident request for pardon.

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 Today my Father is waiting for me, I must return to Him... 

Then the prodigal son came to his senses and said: ‹ I will leave this place and Go to my Father and say: "Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you." ›

While he was still a long way off, his Father saw him and was moved with pity. He ran to the boy, clasped him in his arms and kissed him tenderly. The Father said: "Quick, bring out the best robe... this son of mine was dead and has come back to Life..." (Luke 15) 

Our Heavenly Father awaits us in the same way.

Following the example of the prodigal son, examine your conscience in the Light of the Gospel and find out when you have behaved contrary to the teaching of Our Lord Jesus Christ in thoughts, words and deeds.

Jesus said: "You will love the Lord your God with all your heart..."

  • Is my heart set on God, so that I really love him above all things?
  • Am I open to his presence?
  • Do I listen to the words of the Gospel? To the teachings of Christ's
  • Church?
  • What place has prayer in my life?
  • Is the Eucharist the center of my Christian life?
  • Do I take part regularly in Mass on Sundays and Feasts?
  • Do I allow the Lord to be the Lord, or do I try to be the Lord myself?
  • Do I cling to my will, my wants, my ways?
  • Have I love and reverence for the name of God?
  • Am I ashamed to witness to my faith in God in my daily life?
  • Do I rebel against taking up the Cross which God sends?
  • Do I turn to God only when I am in need?

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Jesus said: "Love your neighbor as yourself..."

  • Am I well-disposed, able to forgive offences?
  • Do I judge without mercy in thoughts and words?
  • Do I speak ill, slander, steal?
  • Am I intolerant, envious, hot-tempered?
  • Do I take care of the poor, the sick, the defenseless people?
  • Am I sincere and honest in my dealings with others?
  • Have I been the cause of another's committing sin?
  • In my family life, have I contributed to the well-being and happiness of the rest of the family by patience and genuine love?
  • Do I exercise responsible parenthood according to the teachings of the Church?
  • Do I care for and respect the environment in which I live?
  • Do I seek the well-being of others?
  • Do I think enough about those who are less fortunate?
  • Am I a spectator before people's problems, or do I help?
  • Do I despise those of another creed, colour or opinion?
  • Am I respectful of other people's property?
  • Have I abused someone's property or stolen or coveted another's goods?
  • Do I forgive those who sin against me?
  • Do I do my duty as a citizen?
  • Do I respect legitimate authority?
  • Jesus said: "Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect"
  • • Do I truly live as a Christian and give a good example to others?
  • Have I gone against my conscience out of fear or hypocrisy?
  • Have I participated in things which offend both Christian and human decency?
  • Am I too concerned about myself, my health, my success?
  • Do I go to excess in matters of food and drink?
  • Have I kept my senses and my whole body pure and chaste as a temple of the Holy Spirit?
  • Do I bear grudges; do I contemplate revenge?
  • Do I share my possessions with the less fortunate?
  • Am I always ready to take offence and act impatiently?
  • Do l use the gift of time well?
  • Am I able to forgive myself?
  • Do I seek to be humble and bring peace?

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  • 15 minutes before Sunset Mass on Sat and all Masses on Sundays.

Church of The Holy Cross strives to serve its community with compassion, love and zeal.

For specific service, please select from the menu on the right for more details.

  • Weekdays
    Mass 6.30am
    Lunchtime Mass - 12:15pm          
    Mass 6pm

  • Saturdays
    Mass 7:30am
    Mass 4.10pm
    Mass 6pm (Mandarin)

  • Novena 3.30pm

  • Sundays
    Mass 7:30am
    Mass 9:30am
    Mass 11:30am
    Mass 5:00pm

  • Public Holidays
    Mass 7am 
    Mass 8:30am

Every 1st Sunday of Odd Months.

 Schedule for 2026

  • Baptism: Sunday, 4th January 2026 @12.45pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 21st December 2025
    Preparatory Session: Saturday, 27th December 2025 @ 1pm @ St Michael Room

  • Baptism Date: Sunday, 1st March 2026 @12.45pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 15th February 2026
    Preparatory Session: 21st February 2026 @1pm @St Michael Room

  • Baptism Date: Sunday, 3rd May 2026 @12.45pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 19th April 2026
    Preparatory Session: Saturday, 25th April 2026 @1pm @St Michael Room
  • Baptism Date: Sunday, 5th July 2026 @12.45pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 21st June 2026
    Preparatory Session: Saturday, 27th June 2026 @1pm @St Michael Room
  • Baptism Date: Sunday, 6th Sept 2026 @12.45pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 23rd August 2026
    Preparatory Session: Saturday, 29th August 2026 @1pm @St Michael Room

  • Baptism Date: Sunday, 1st November 2026 @1245pm
    Registration Closing: Sunday, 18th October 2026
    Preparatory Session: Saturday, 24th October 2026 @1pm @St Michael Room
  • Note:
  • Preparatory Session Attendance is compulsory for both Parents and God-parents.
  • Registration Form & Documents to be submitted to the Secretariat (email: chc.secretariat@catholic.org.sg)
  • Original copy of Registration Form - SIGNED by both Parents.
  • Church AND Civil Marriage Certificates of Parents.
  • Baptism Certificate(s) of Parent(s).
  • Birth Certificate of Child.
  • Baptism AND Confirmation Certificate(s) of Godparent(s).

Download registration form here.

  • Saturdays only

    9:00am or 11:30am

    Do check with the Secretariat for availability of dates and wedding receptions at least six months in advance.
    Please make your booking personally at the Secretariat.

Subcategories

6 May
Saturday  
Novena 4.15pm Fr Jovita 
English 5pm Fr Robertus
Mandarin 6.30pm Fr Henry

7-May
Sunday

7.30am Fr Jovita 
9.30am Fr Henry
11.30am Fr Robertus
5pm Fr Henry

CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS

PRAYER FOR THE PARISH

Loving God, you gather us as your people and have formed us into a community of faith, hope and love; a priestly, prophetic and kingly people. Humbly we ask you, make our parish truly a communion of communities.

 

Help us to turn away from sin and believe the Gospel, so that we may be faithful disciples of Jesus Christ, and to be more like Him day by day.

 

Guide our parish leaders with your wisdom and love. Inspire all our parishioners to offer our time, talents and treasures as stewards of the Gospel, for the growth of your Kingdom.

 

May the Holy Spirit enlighten and invigorate us to actively participate in the mission you entrusted to us, so that we may be a worshipping, witnessing, evangelizing and serving community.

 

May the spirit of collaboration and co-responsibility bring us into a fuller and fruitful communion with you and with one another. We ask this through Christ, our Lord. Amen.